My Purpose is Provoking Change. So I’m very interested in the change process. I’ve observed how easy it is to persuade people about something if they have no preconceived views on it, and how hard it becomes once they’ve ‘made up their mind’. I’ve observed how our worldview ‘frames’ profoundly affect what we believe, and what we’re prepared to believe, and always trump facts. I’ve observed how hard it is to bring about real, sustained change in large organizations, even with coercion and massively expensive change projects. And lately I’ve observed that: We do what we must, then we do what’s easy, then we do what’s fun. There is no time or energy left for what’s needed to save the world, even if we can agree on what that is.
In response to this, ‘KF’ wrote: This made me think of those of us who are inclined to think about saving the world. We’re no different than anyone else but in some ways it must be more necessary, easier (perhaps because years of necessity have translated to a degree of skill), and more fun (the enjoyment of acting in accordance with, rather than denying, our nature) for us to be this way…If others are just acting out their wiring (their particular brand of what is necessary, easy, and fun) we must then try to “package” world-saving as necessary, easy, and fun in order to obtain, if not cooperation with, at least toleration of, [some] proposed solutions.
To see if this ‘packaging’ might be possible, I put together a model of how people change (their minds, their beliefs, and/or their behaviours), and the result is the graphic above. Here’s a brief walkthrough:
Daniel Quinn used his stories Ishmael and Story of B to introduce new information to people in a non-threatening way, in order to get them to the point they were ready to change. He says, in Beyond Civilization: People will listen when they’re ready to listen and not before. Probably, once upon a time, you weren’t ready to listen to an idea than now seems to you obvious, even urgent. Let people come to it in their own time. Nagging or bullying will only alienate them. Don’t preach. Don’t waste time with people who want to argue. They’ll keep you immobilized forever. Look for people who are already open to something new.
Quinn is saying that, as entertaining as they may be, debates don’t change minds (except for those who haven’t yet really made up their minds). So, in addition to the things we can do to change hearts, minds & behaviours (the things in the left column of the chart above), Quinn points out what we should not waste time doing: bullying, nagging, arguing, preaching and debating. As much as I admire An Inconvenient Truth*, I am not convinced it’s going to accomplish anything, because it’s preaching to the choir. Who, among those not already convinced of his message, will go to the theatre to watch this film, if something easier or more fun is playing on the screen next door? Many of the changes we need to bring about, alas, are complex ones, and require more than one iteration of this chart. Ran Prieur, according to a note I received from Peter Ireland, has called David Korten’s book The Great Turning, “Final Empire for Dummies”. What he’s saying is that, while I was impatient with The Great Turning for not having …practical discussion of how to create models, intentional communities, sustainable natural enterprises, peer-to-peer sustainability information exchanges and personal sustainable living programs. You know, community-building stuff. Real what you can do stuff,
Korten has produced a book with information, geared to appeal to a wide variety of frames, that could get a lot of people from point A to point B — at least aware of the need and opportunity for change. They will then be ready for change, and more open to the additional stories and information (like those on this site, and Ran’s crash story, and James Kunstler’s dystopia The Long Emergency, and even William Kotke’s Final Empire) that could ultimately get them from point B to point C on this complex and difficult change journey. We humans do change slowly! For three million years that was a blessing, keeping us from messing with Gaia’s remarkable balancing act. Now, as we careen out of control towards the end of an unsustainable civilization, it’s become a curse. But, as KF says, those of us who are ready to change are finding it more urgent, easier and more fun than it was even a few years ago. And as a result we will keep changing, andchange faster. And we do, and will do, what we must. * Coincidentally, the Inconvenient Truth website, on the What You Can Do page, has suggestions very similar to the One Tonne Challenge. And they’re easy (if not much fun). |
June 11, 2006
How to Change Hearts, Minds & Behaviours
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I like and appreciate the simplification of this Change Process model. But I think it can be improved on by combining it with the Layers of Resistance (http://www.focusedperformance.com/articles/resistancetext.pdf is one of the better papers I’m aware of.). Keep up the good work!
Comment by Jason Week — June 12, 2006 @ 09:49
one of the things i struggle with personally is how to deal with the fact that change does seem urgent to me, but not to anyone in my immediate life. it is difficult to keep this from being depressing and maddening (although i try to do so because i must, it is neither easy nor fun)…i guess my point is that we must also take care what we do with people once we have inspired them to change because there is no garuntee they will “stick”, and once lost it will be more difficult to win them back (due to established frames and disillusionment)…there seems to be a focus on obtaining more and more buy-in…this makes sense, but not if you can’t (to borrow from corporate speak) retain the talent you’ve already recruited. my impression seems to be that there’s a place in the movement for those who either have the money to go launch or buy in to an intentional community, are comfortably established and have professional skills to offer, or have become gurus in permaculture and survival skills…i’m not sure where the young person whose heart and mind is open but who is virtually alone in the world with not much “on paper” to offer fits in? isn’t it neccessary to build a place to welcome them regardless of their current assets and status? if they are willing to learn, work, and participate, shouldn’t there be a place for them? too often, i am saddened by the fact that even the progressive movements seem to play by old-world rules in that, if you can’t afford to play, you don’t deserve to be in the game. or that “it wasn’t easy for anyone to make changes, but we did it so you are on your own. come back when you have something to offer”. this sort of pull- yourself-up-by-your-birkenstocks ethic does not account for certain priveledges these people may have had to assist them that youngers do not (example: college costs then vs now) *or*, at the very least, that it is in the prosperous elder’s best interest to recruit, foster, and mentor willing and dedicated youngers. i think younger people who are inclined to participate sense this and feel it is either evidence of hypocrisy in the movement, or that they must do what others have done, make it in the “real world” and then get out of the game…which may or may not work; they may be seduced by or snared in the game (particularly by debt, but also by the need to numb-out in order to even cope). if elders wish to obtain cooperation and buy-in from youngers willing to change, it seems there must be a place for them to do so without already having lots of money and a law degree, or even a permaculture certificate…this life is triage…first we save ourselves, but i would urge prosperous and capable elders to please consider the plight of like-minded, if under-funded, youngers. i feel that we have a lot of potential, but many of us are (rightly) anxious, scared, and overwhelmed by present conditions. please consider what to do with the hearts and minds you win; it is no easy task to survive in the world of illusions once you are on to the game particularly if you lack the years, experience, community (even a community of one other person in real life) and resources to slip off to a yurt. please, all of us, remember those who have the sense of urgency and of necessity but do not have it particularly easy…remember that it is not only neccessary to accumulate more and more support, but also to cultivate the support already obtained lest it too be lost. in being sustainable, we must also prioritize sustaining eachother. kf
Comment by spy for sanity — June 12, 2006 @ 13:07
ps. it occurs to me that my above post may be construed as being at odds with my initial one where i imply it is (among other things) easier and more fun for those inclined to save the world to do so. i do think that’s true, but i think we do a disservice not to consider that it is still quite difficult and not altogether fun (lonely, maddening, frustrating) for many of us, especially those who lack years, experience, community, and resources…and that it is in our collective best interest to discuss how to deal with this reality.
Comment by spy for sanity — June 12, 2006 @ 14:55
Blatant attempts to persuade usually fail. It’s best to get people to think, present a puzzle they must ponder and get their minds working out various answers on their own. I have faith in people’s ability to come up with the right answers if they will only think things through and not persist in knee-jerk responses and canned philosophies.
Comment by Barbara W. Klaser — June 12, 2006 @ 15:02
I feel my big challenge is to sow general metaphores that may lead people to ask themselves the appropiate questions whose answers may lead the to the change they need… — spy for sanity, I find this so true : “my point is that we must also take care what we do with people once we have inspired them to change because there is no garuntee they will “stick”, and once lost it will be more difficult to win them back (due to established frames and disillusionment)”… thanks for this words Spy, my mail is pueblosdearena@gmail.com.
Comment by Mariella — June 17, 2006 @ 11:34