The problem with New Year’s resolutions is that they create anxiety, hope, and usually ultimately disappointment. So I’m starting a new tradition — Mid-Year’s intentions. These aren’t things you want to do, they’re things you know you’re going to do. It’s a taking stock, a self-clarification of priorities, a statement of intentionality. In accordance with Pollard’s Law — We do what we must, then we do what’s easy, and then we do what’s fun — this list is about what you’re driven to do (not what you wish you were more driven to do), it’s about what easy/fun playing and learning activities you’re going to do. It’s about realizing what you’re becoming, not becoming something that you’re not. It’s about being more yourself. My reason for blogging about it is that I think it might be revealing to my readers (and if you write about your intentions that could be revealing to your readers). Our readers would then have a little better context for understanding us, and what we write about, and understanding it better. Good stuff for a Friday, I think. So here are my ten mid-year’s intentions:
Only a few years ago some of these things would have been impossible, even inconceivable, and others would have seemed so arduous that I would groan just contemplating them (or feel guilty about not even trying). Now they’re easy, they’re in my nature, they’re what I’m becominganyway. I am so fortunate! Now, what are your intentions? If you have your own blog or website, report them there and just link back here — your readers should know. Category: Let-Self-Change
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What you said, what Ed said, and:*Make a decision about veganism. I’ve been being vegan except for candy bars and other cravings, but that’s not really vegan. I feel better about myself when I’m really vegan. But maybe I’m cheating because I can’t do it, in which case I have to accept that.* Visit the local farmer’s market.* Make a decision about how I’ll be spending the rest of my summer and stick to it, and make it a positive thing even if it doesn’t turn out as I initially want it to
Oh, you’re calling it “Pollard’s Law” now? Well, I’m going to have to use that.A few of my own mid-year intentions:- Ignore people who are pressuring me to do things I would otherwise do on my own simply because I want to.- Figure out how to let people know how I feel without losing my temper or pissing them off (too much).- Allow myself to be more open and free rather than worrying about other people’s false opinions.
I can summarize the trend that has been shaping my life over the past few years with two words: letting goAs it so happens, it is the only resolution I ever allow myself to undertake: to let go more and more. Of earthly possessions, preconceived ideas, attachment to anything or anyone, expectations … letting go of it all. Every item I wake up realizing I’ve let go feels like a giant step towards more freedom.