|The Idea: The Internet has made it technologically possible for anyone to find and connect with anyone else — and for ideal relationships to be established. But these idealized connections are rendered almost impossible by human nature, which leads us to prefer the known and trusted over better-suited strangers, and leads the people most in demand to cut off connections with almost everyone else. That effectively prevents a lot of powerful ideas from being realized.
In my recent post on Blog-Hosted Conversations, I threw out the following Question as a possible first Conversation topic:
How could we overcome the huge disconnect that exists today between the people who have great ideas and the people who have the money and other resources to realize those ideas?
The question provoked almost as much response as Jeremy Heigh’s idea for the Conversations did, so I thought it might be worth exploring further how and why this disconnect exists.
In the post I mentioned that I belong to these informal communities and networks, with about 1500 members in total:
Some of those people are useful ‘connectors’ that give me access to other communities and networks: For example, some of the bloggers in my business, progressive, Salon and Canadian blogger networks also happen to be published authors, journalists, publishers, economists, venture capitalists, teachers or professors, and know others in these fields. Some of them are true Tipping Point ‘connectors‘, who pride themselves on hooking people up with others they would probably never find on their own. The logic of LinkedIn and eCademy is based on the presumption that if your networks are substantial and well-managed you should be able to get access to virtually anyone and anything you need through “the strength of weak ties (SWT)“.
This may work fine in the application that SWT theory was originally developed around — finding prospective employees. The employer is often looking for the best possible candidate, and wants to cast as wide a net as possible. The onus is on the job-seeker to navigate his/her way through the weak ties and win the job. The employer incurs virtually no cost in casting the wide net (especially today with the cost of posting electronically virtually zero).
This is especially true if the recruiter delegates pre-screening duties to HR staff or a ‘head-hunter’ to create a tiny short-list of candidates to interview. And today, with big corporations being net destroyers, not creators, of jobs, where searches for well-paying jobs are increasingly scarce, a wide net can attract some extraordinary people, enough to pay for the head-hunter in spades. When you’re a big corporation with lots of resources at your disposal, it’s a buyer’s market.
But in most situations — the search for business partners, marriage partners, jobs or investors for example, or the search for experts or employees if you’re an entrepreneur with modest resources — the value of casting a wide net in the search is limited by two constraints:
Unlike the large corporation executive, you can’t afford to hire someone to separate the wheat from the chaff (or, more likely, find the needle in the haystack). And even if you could, it’s quite possible the agent you hire will accept kickbacks from one of the candidates to give them the inside track. Bottom line: Better not cast a wide net. Go to your strong personal contacts one at a time and ask them for one candidate. Repeat until you find the right person.
Now consider this from the perspective of the person you’re seeking — the prospective business or marriage partner, expert, investor or employer. They’re getting overwhelmed by twice or thrice-removed referrals for connections. Most of the ‘callers’ are looking to get something that the recipient is unable or disinclined to give (especially to a stranger), or may not have even thought about. What do they do? They tell their close contacts not to refer anyone to them. They unsubscribe from social network lists. They get unlisted phone numbers and unlisted e-mail addresses. They get agents and intermediaries to handle communications for them and shield them from ‘weak ties’.
So instead of the idealized networks of the Tipping Point, shown at right, where connectors, mavens and salesmen work to connect people and ideas virally, we end up with the constricted, broken networks shown in the diagrams above: Outgoing connections are constricted by the high cost of extending too wide a net, and the lack of trust the further away the connection is, to the point the ‘ideal’ connection is rarely made. And returning connections are likewise constricted by the sequential disconnects of connectors, agents & intermediaries, and filters, to the point the people you most want to connect with are often the least likely to ‘return your call’. This has always been so, and insofar as information is concerned, the Internet is much less constricted than previous information channels. But insofar as people are concerned, I would argue that the disconnects are as great as they have always been. The rich, the famous, the powerful, the most-wanted and the ideal matches are no more accessible and available for relationships than they ever were. Even those who are not still on the wrong side of the digital divide have mostly reintermediated themselves so the technologically possible connection between everyone and everyone else is kept humanly impossible.
Such is the weakness of weak ties. When it comes to human connection, the network is still broken.
I think this is the reason for the disconnect between people with great ideas and people with the money and resources to realize them — the reason so many great ideas go nowhere.
So now we need a Blog-Hosted Conversation to discuss what to do about it — how to work around these disconnects. I suspect that part of the answer is permissioning and permission marketing. We need to give something away to establish trust and differentiate ourselves from the ‘inauthentic’ and ‘unqualified’ callers, and to make ideal connections.
My first Blog-Hosted Conversation will take place at the end of the month. Stay tuned.
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